Tuesday, September 24, 2013

The Talk

Alright kids it's time we had a little talk, about sex. I know some of you are scared of this subject or giggle at the mention of it, but it's time to be adults about it and see it for what it is. Sex is fun, period. It's a fun thing that grownups do to enjoy themselves and relieve stress. People act like sex is this taboo thing we shouldn't talk about. Bullshit, sex is the only reason any of us are here. A big misconception around these parts is that it is this "sacred thing that a husband a wife do to strengthen the bond" blah blah blah, more bullshit. If that were the case people wouldn't be cheating left and right. And on that topic, lets not fool ourselves, cheating is far more prevalent than anyone cares to admit.
Now, I'm not sure exactly where I'm going with this post, but I guess I'm curious. Why do we attach so much gravity to sex? It is one of life's greatest pleasures.
Over the past little while a few of my intimate encounters could be classified as, terrible. I don't know if it was because there was some expectation, or because there wasn't. I've gotten enough late night calls and texts from ex-girlfriends questioning their choice in companions  to know that far too many people are having lame sex. If the chemistry isn't there, it just isn't there. You can try all you want, but you can't create it out of nothing. There have been a few people throughout my life that I have had crazy chemistry with, and if it's there you know it.
I'm just having a hard time lately understanding why people are so resistant to letting their guard down and having a little fun. So I guess, go have a fling. Live some life and don't over think it.

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